{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"PitziCultural","provider_url":"https:\/\/pitzicultural.ro","title":"Dublul standard - PitziCultural","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"CpiKcmKh19\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pitzicultural.ro\/index.php\/2024\/07\/31\/dublul-standard\/\">Dublul standard<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/pitzicultural.ro\/index.php\/2024\/07\/31\/dublul-standard\/embed\/#?secret=CpiKcmKh19\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8222;Dublul standard&#8221; &#8211; PitziCultural\" data-secret=\"CpiKcmKh19\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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De care eu, \u00een mod evident, nu suf\u0103r. C\u00e2nd ridic tonul la Ironman se cheam\u0103 fermitate, c\u00e2nd o face el e obr\u0103znicie. C\u00e2nd cineva \u00eemi spune c\u0103 nu se poate vedea cu mine e lips\u0103 de interes, c\u00e2nd eu nu m\u0103 pot vedea cu cineva, am lucruri mai bune de f\u0103cut. Cum ziceam, eu nu suf\u0103r de a\u0219a ceva, doar restul. \u00cen acest spirit vreau s\u0103 atrag aten\u021bia b\u0103rba\u021bilor asupra unei gre\u0219eli majore, chiar fatale a\u0219 zice&#8230; Femeia de l\u00e2ng\u0103 voi e perfect\u0103. Asta e o axiom\u0103. Nu trebuie demonstrat\u0103 \u0219i, mai ales, nu trebuie contrazis\u0103. C\u0103 altfel p\u0103\u021bi\u021bi ca Iubi&#8230; Povestea La spectacolul nefericit despre care am povestit \u00een postarea anterioar\u0103, la masa de al\u0103turi, st\u0103tea o ea (estimarea a fost f\u0103cut\u0103 pe baza tr\u0103s\u0103turilor anatomice care se z\u0103reau prin ochelarii mei nesp\u0103la\u021bi) cam de v\u00e2rsta mea care r\u00e2dea de nu mai putea. Efectiv aveam impresia c\u0103 o s\u0103 se sufoce de at\u00e2ta r\u00e2s. Era venit\u0103 cu un el, zis \u0219i Iubi, \u0219i nimic nu anun\u021ba drama care avea s\u0103 urmeze. \u00cen singurul monolog la care am z\u00e2mbit vag era vorba despre partenera celui de pe scen\u0103. Practic personajul despre care se povestea avea dou\u0103 mari calit\u0103\u021bi: \u00eent\u00e2rzia cu orele pentru c\u0103 st\u0103tea \u00een baie s\u0103 se machieze \u0219i spunea pove\u0219ti incredibil de \u00eentortocheate \u0219i greu de urm\u0103rit. Toate bune \u0219i frumoase, p\u00e2n\u0103 ce Iubi face gre\u0219eala vie\u021bii lui \u0219i o \u00eentreab\u0103 pe ea: &#8211; Te recuno\u0219ti, nu-i a\u0219a? Oameni buni, am crezut c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 chem salvarea c\u0103ci ei i-a r\u0103mas \u00een g\u00e2t hohotul de r\u00e2s \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se sufoce de indignare. Era cu spatele la mine, a\u0219a c\u0103 n-am v\u0103zut dac\u0103 i-au ie\u0219it ochii din cap sau ceva, dar Iubi a devenit livid \u0219i a \u00een\u021bepenit \u0219i mi-am dat seama c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fi fost grav. Cum ar fi zis \u0103ia de pe scen\u0103: &#8211; Bro, ce aia mea te-a apucat? \u021ai-a distrus berea filtrul dintre creier \u0219i gur\u0103?! E\u0219ti sinuciga\u0219?! Mai bine \u00ee\u021bi f\u0103ceai sepuku dec\u00e2t s\u0103 acuzi o femeie de a\u0219a ceva! Nu mai ajungi cu sufletul \u00een rai \u00een via\u021ba vie\u021bilor tale! Nici m\u0103car noi nu facem glume a\u0219a proaste. Ea s-a ridicat val-v\u00e2rtej \u0219i a disp\u0103rut. Cred c\u0103 s-a dus la baie, nici nu conteaz\u0103. Mare st\u0103p\u00e2nire de sine ce-a avut ea. Altcineva \u00een locul ei f\u0103cea m\u0103cel. E drept c\u0103 \u0219i iubi a avut curaj. S-a dus dup\u0103 ea. Ba chiar a \u0219i adus-o \u00eenapoi la mas\u0103. E drept c\u0103 p\u0103rea s\u0103 fi fost lovit brusc de un tremurici incontrolabil, de-i cl\u0103n\u021b\u0103neau din\u021bii pe paharul de bere, dar i-a r\u0103mas al\u0103turi. La terminarea spectacolului, ea a s\u0103rit de pe scaun cu o vitez\u0103 supersonic\u0103. Cred c\u0103 a prins \u0219i autobuzul care plecase cu vreo 30 de minute \u00eenainte din sta\u021bie. Cele 20 de secunde de care a avut Iubi nevoie s\u0103 reac\u021bioneze cred c\u0103 au fost \u00eent\u00e2rzierea vie\u021bii lui. Dac\u0103 n-a prins acela\u0219i autobuz e posibil s\u0103 mai fie \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i azi. Altfel, cred c\u0103 s-a topit deja sub privirile ei. Concluzia Femeia de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine e perfect\u0103. Doar celelalte \u00eent\u00e2rzie sau spun pove\u0219ti f\u0103r\u0103 sens. \u021aine\u021bi minte, exist\u0103 o chestie care se nume\u0219te dublu standard \u0219i nu exist\u0103 degeaba! E acolo ca s\u0103 v\u0103 salveze via\u021ba. P.S. Am cunoscut c\u00e2ndva un b\u0103rbat care nu \u00eent\u00e2rzia niciodat\u0103. Sub dou\u0103 ore vreau s\u0103 zic. A\u0219a c\u0103 ea ar putea fi oricine. Mai pu\u021bin eu, c\u0103 mereu ajung mai devreme cu 15 minute. \u0218i nu, nici alte defecte nu am."}